Being short guy dating
I prefer dating taller men so I can wear anything and feel good! You can't borrow their clothes."When I was in high school I was close to 5'8" and dated someone who was barely 5'2".I think the hardest part was that his clothes didn't fit the way boyfriend clothes should.It's hard to ignore something as obvious as height, especially if it makes a person stand out.While some people find that their height doesn't impact dating at all, others may feel that it allows for judgment, fetishization, and stereotyping.Sexual attraction largely derives from your upbringing.
However, I also deal with so many ignorant men who make a huge deal about my height, probably to bury their own insecurity or intimidation.The message many women send short men goes something like this: Yeah, sorry, but nothing you could say or do could ever give you a chance with me. For those of you who insist that you’re not attracted to short men, you should, at least, try to have a good reason why you’re not.Men and women both fall prey to the (remarkably persistent) myth that sexual attraction works on auto-pilot, as if we are all preprogrammed to be attracted to the ones who captivate our attention. The type of person you’re attracted to depends largely on your beliefs. My client, Alexis, comes from the most machismo family I can imagine, full of firefighters, Marines, and gobs of Old Spice. In Alexis’ family, she was the only daughter and the men in her family were brawny and tough.Over the years, I’ve dated and slept with women of all heights, ranging from 5’1″ to six-foot tall amazons.The trick is understanding how to make height less of an issue.